Trying To Make Sense of My Existence

I think it is safe to say that the root of all evil in the world is the lack of love , almost anyone would agree with this . I’m saying this based on my observation of my feelings and responses to life events and a bit of understanding of my psyche (as there is nothing that we can learn that can give us more tremendous benefits than ourselves) and also from the insights of many authors through their writing . I’m not exactly sure whether my hesitation in giving love is due to my upbringing or the frailty of my character as I got very easily offended during my younger years . Probably due to many reasons , complex causes that intertwine with one another .

And I had also wondered on how did I acquire the kind of upbringing I had , I mean some people had very lovely childhoods and their lives have been so full of love with lovingly demonstrative parents , aunts , uncles , cousins , grandparents and in fact long distant relatives that they turn out to be adults who are no less affectionately demonstrative themselves . Though gist of the Holy Scripture of my religion emphasizes on something like , “God does as He pleases” (Indeed your Lord is the Doer of what He wills: Hud verse 107 , He will forgive whom He pleases and punish whom He pleases: The Family of Imran verse 285 , and , God guides whom He wills: The Light verse 46) , I believe that there is always an underlying reason for any condition and circumstance that He brings into reality . Yeah one can argue for hours concerning which one comes first , God’s will or the cause , but I’d rather settle for the argument that we can never comprehend God , and He does as He pleases but at the same time we the folk who are gifted with free will are accountable to our own actions .

I was asking for God in my prayers to show me the truth of my existence , the same way other believers would do , for quite some time … One day my prayer was answered , just like many other believers whose prayers had been answered , I came across a website , True Islam while I was searching for some reading materials that could explain to me the position of reincarnation in Islam . The Quranic interpretation held by the website disapproves reincarnation citing Quranic verses that support the view that our life on earth will be only once . However that is not the topic of this article and the matter that I would like to discuss is this theory proposed by the website whose owners I reckon happen to be Quranists , concerning the origin or reality of our existence . The article whose author is not mentioned is titled “Why Are We Here ?” . By citing the two first verses from the Chapter of Kingdom of the Quran it started by claiming that we did have an existence prior to our life on earth . What kind of creatures were we is not mentioned but that which has been stated is we were once part of a Heavenly Society . The trouble started when Satan as one of the elite started to entertain thoughts of snobbery that his God-given powers qualified him to be a god besides God and therefore challenged God’s absolute authority . This blasphemy lead to a division within the Heavenly Society . There were those who agreed with Satan that he is capable of being a God , those who were not sure , and those who were under no doubt that God alone has the qualifications to be a god . As a result God gathered the two former groups and offered them a second chance to repent and submit to His absolute authority . A vast majority of the creatures accepted the opportunity , however a small portion refused the offer and arrogantly preferred to take the responsibility to find out for themselves about Satan’s claim of God’s authority , and we humans are said to be among them . Therefore the Heavenly Society were divided into four categories : angels , animals , jinns and humans based on their stances during the Great Feud . It’s enough to conclude the article by stating that our purpose of existence on earth is solely to witness for ourselves that Satan is not at all capable of being a God and to bear witness that there is no God but God . This life is nothing but our last chance to redeem ourselves for our past arrogance and transgression .

So perhaps that was my sin , and it is rational to think that there was itself a spectrum of doubt and arrogance among those who doubted (which was only known to God) , and perhaps the unpleasantness that I had gone through was in a way a form of retribution for my sin . The gist “God does as He pleases” could be God’s way of forgiving our sins by not mentioning them anymore and those people who resigned themselves to that fact is in fact a form of recognition of God’s absolute authority and could reward them very immensely . Thus , that is how I make sense of my early realities .

Anyhow the unpleasantness that I had was actually due solely to my lack of appreciation for good things , or should I say my inherent state of mind was at fault there as I do know children who had gone through far worse unpleasant events but were still capable in giving love , and they became remarkable human beings afterwards . So the conclusion could be , the sin I had committed during the Great Feud somehow decreased my vibration or rather the frequency of my state of being that eventually manifested as the frailty of my character during the early years of my life .

However , despite of the intensity of doubt and arrogance we had in the Great Feud , we are still being bestowed with the gift of free will , the reasoning ability and the capacity to feel emotions . Perhaps with this gift , we could figure out the workings of our physical reality , that is as the New Agers call them , the Law of Attraction (the term referring to the concept that we are in charge of our present reality) . That is in fact the manifestation of God’s infinite mercy . He even chose humans among mankind to receive His revelations that can serve as our guides during our habitation in this world (and I have quite an idea that these humans , or the prophets , or rather the enlightened people were among the few member of the Assembly who committed the least doubt concerning God’s absolute authority) . Therefore our purpose doesn’t get very far from the main teachings of the great prophets , that is to acknowledge God’s authority and make as many good deeds as possible to reap the rewards of a good life in the afterlife .

Now that I am accepting this theory of existence , I really hope that it will make it easier for me to make peace with my past and allow me to create more pleasant realities with much more peace . But there are times when things don’t get any easier despite of this new realization (if I’m allowed to use such word) , bad feelings hardly wear off . Sometimes I alleviate the bad feelings through other means such as consciously trying to raise my vibrations as high as I can by taking long deep breaths or by counting the small blessings . The realization of the life before our life on earth just happens to be one of the many ways I can ease my mental suffering . I reckon if the rewards would be much higher if I remain ignorant of this theory and continue to dwell on the more difficult means of a series of trials in letting go . As I am quite acquainted with the wisdom of ancient people , the more difficult something is , the higher are the rewards , or at least the more sins are being wiped off , or rather in language of the New Agers , to increase the appreciation for the good things that might come afterwards .

So the question now is what if I’m wrong , and if I’m wrong , what will I lose for making up such a false concept of existence ? But what is the true one anyway ? Life is harsh , some people have already gone heartless , this is just the least I can do to make my existence as a Muslim more plausible to cope with . At least again I’m not compromising myself by committing shirk or detaching myself completely from Him by worshipping idols or declaring atheism , so as long as I keep my distance from the boundary of faith , it should be just fine . I won’t judge non-Muslims anyway , I will never say God’s mercy is barred from reaching them , as God also asks us to do kindness to and have empathy and compassion for each other , and as long as anyone does this , who can stop one from receiving God’s love ?

                                              

At the end of the day , all of us are just trying to make sense of the world we live in , so that all forms of suffering can become more bearable and we can forgive and forget with much more ease .