The Perception

Some people often say "positive thinking please" not just to ease our feeling but rather to restructure the way we think though not many of that have said that do recognize of what they are saying.

It is like she is saying, 'please be thrifty' while holding Gucci, Dolce & Gabbana, and Christian Louboutin in her shopping bags.

Yes, due to what we have been through in our daily life, people we have met, tests we have failed and all the seriously annoying things happened to us, some of us have developed the way of thinking like "it is not gonna work out !".

What you see is what you've got ... What you mentally see, is what you're actually going to get.

Do not believe?

Haha, I cannot come up with any analogy when it deals with the matter that we cannot see.

But I have read about this one particular thing, the subconscious mind, from a book titled The Power of Your Subconscious Mind, by Dr. Joseph Murphy Ph.D.

Well, do not yawn yet !

This subconscious mind operates our hear beat, flow of blood, the mechanisms in cells and all the biological functions in our body that we cannot simply say, 

'hey heart, stop beating, I'm not in love okay !'.

This subconscious mind is functioning in a broader area that we could ever imagine. It captures pictures through our eyes without we realizing the behaviour and having these pictures to come up in our dreams often leads to us either smiling or making this face in our sleep ;

Have you ever felt that, whenever you keep thinking about something, that thing always appears on your sight unexpectedly at any moment?

Say, you have been dreaming to have a hot girlfriend, and whenever you're outside like taking a bus or driving your old classic car, a hot girl suddenly comes across your sight...and after that....

boom....

Haha, blame your subconscious mind.

It works with other things too. When you think about something, say a perception of you will be rich sooner in any way, in a frequent manner, your subconscious mind is like receiving an instruction to do what has been told. It will start to organize things in the way your conscious mind thinks.

It attracts situations into your mind that lead to what you want. Say a chance. You meet this one particular website offering you to be an affiliate of some products. But you do not how or the amazing techniques to promote the products. You keep thinking about it, looking for solution, at the same  time, you are projecting your subconscious mind again.

It will work in its own way until you find a solution. There must be mistakes however, but the thing is, do not let the way your mind thinks to be influenced by this one seemingly big unlucky incident, that makes you wondering 'will I make this work?'... Yes you actually can.

I don't know what I'm talking about, but simply the point here is to think positive in whatever you are doing !

There should not be "No, I will fail the presentation ! I will be fartiiingggg when doing it !", "I'm gonna bit my tongue and slipped over bullshit when talking to my counselling teacher", or "Holy urine ! I will look like Shrek in front of her." .

So, from now on, look from the positive point of view, think what you can do, not what you can't and believe you can make it. I am so full with food when I have reached this one last point....

Be Ourselves

We have come across this term (be yourself) almost every time we read about what others think. It refers to being whoever you ought to be, an angel, a pious person, a car, a monkey, an aeroplane or whatsoever that is within you.

The definition is not specific enough for it is limitless on the options you as a human can choose. But I rather think of it as a representation of our self in becoming a confident, brave, persistent, and clever person but at the same time not to cross the word humanity.

Often enough we do not have the confidence to speak in the crowd, or even in one-one situation to express our opinion or to press that we do not like what the person has suggested at all. The self-esteem is very low that you cannot neglect the fact you do not have the confidence.

Not at all ! No one is born with the confidence already inside, it has to be nurtured, nourished and made to be strong every single moment you have to practice it within you.

We cannot waste the chances we have got into our hands to make ourselves better. It is like having a cake (though not everyone fancy cakes, hehe)  in front of you waiting for it to get into your mouth by itself. But the truth is you have to put it into your mouth with your hands or in a different version, your boyfriend or girlfriend feeds you (okay now i wanna throw up) . Make efforts !