Be Ourselves

We have come across this term (be yourself) almost every time we read about what others think. It refers to being whoever you ought to be, an angel, a pious person, a car, a monkey, an aeroplane or whatsoever that is within you.

The definition is not specific enough for it is limitless on the options you as a human can choose. But I rather think of it as a representation of our self in becoming a confident, brave, persistent, and clever person but at the same time not to cross the word humanity.

Often enough we do not have the confidence to speak in the crowd, or even in one-one situation to express our opinion or to press that we do not like what the person has suggested at all. The self-esteem is very low that you cannot neglect the fact you do not have the confidence.

Not at all ! No one is born with the confidence already inside, it has to be nurtured, nourished and made to be strong every single moment you have to practice it within you.

We cannot waste the chances we have got into our hands to make ourselves better. It is like having a cake (though not everyone fancy cakes, hehe)  in front of you waiting for it to get into your mouth by itself. But the truth is you have to put it into your mouth with your hands or in a different version, your boyfriend or girlfriend feeds you (okay now i wanna throw up) . Make efforts !

Sometimes we cannot change the way we behave, we cannot focus on what we are doing, simply because we are thinking how do we look in front of the ones who are looking at us. We just want to look so good in front of others that we cannot concentrate on the mission that is to be accomplished. The secret to overcome that is, we need to train how to focus and to know what we exactly want.

Yeah , Paris Hilton will never be Lady Gaga . And you cannot be Barrack Obama . Everyone is created with a different genetic material within. You are unique in your own way, so be happy as you are, and your defects are just some exercises you need to finish up before you enjoy the result.